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Also Known As: Benjamin Gza Affleck Died:
Born: August 15, 1972 Cause of Death:
Birth Place: Berkeley, California, USA Profession: actor, screenwriter, director


Actor, writer and director Ben Affleck hit the Hollywood radar in 1997 as the co-writer and co-star of "Good Will Hunting," earning an Oscar for Best Original Screenplay along with childhood best friend Matt Damon. In fact, the seemingly overnight ascent to stardom in tandem with Damon became one of the great "Hollywood" stories" of all time â¿¿ rivaling Lana Turner being discovered at Schwab's Drugstore. Flying past the more understated Damon in terms of initial popularity and box office, the handsome, chiseled Affleck went on to achieve box office gold in uneven blockbusters like "Armageddon" (1998), "Pearl Harbor" (2001) and "Daredevil" (2003), as well as quirky Kevin Smith comedies "Chasing Amy" (1997) and "Dogma" (1999). But it was his extracurricular activities â¿¿ dating famous actresses and ending up in rehab â¿¿ that made him a magnet for media attention. His overexposed romance with actress-singer Jennifer Lopez â¿¿ collectively known as "Bennifer" â¿¿ and a string of flops threatened to banish Affleck to B-film status until concerted efforts to reclaim his private life and his celebrated directorial debut "Gone Baby Gone" (2007) and his subsequent efforts "The Town" (2010) and the...

Actor, writer and director Ben Affleck hit the Hollywood radar in 1997 as the co-writer and co-star of "Good Will Hunting," earning an Oscar for Best Original Screenplay along with childhood best friend Matt Damon. In fact, the seemingly overnight ascent to stardom in tandem with Damon became one of the great "Hollywood" stories" of all time â¿¿ rivaling Lana Turner being discovered at Schwab's Drugstore. Flying past the more understated Damon in terms of initial popularity and box office, the handsome, chiseled Affleck went on to achieve box office gold in uneven blockbusters like "Armageddon" (1998), "Pearl Harbor" (2001) and "Daredevil" (2003), as well as quirky Kevin Smith comedies "Chasing Amy" (1997) and "Dogma" (1999). But it was his extracurricular activities â¿¿ dating famous actresses and ending up in rehab â¿¿ that made him a magnet for media attention. His overexposed romance with actress-singer Jennifer Lopez â¿¿ collectively known as "Bennifer" â¿¿ and a string of flops threatened to banish Affleck to B-film status until concerted efforts to reclaim his private life and his celebrated directorial debut "Gone Baby Gone" (2007) and his subsequent efforts "The Town" (2010) and the Oscar-winning "Argo" (2012) proved that perhaps Affleck's most underused talent was his ability to write his own happy ending.

Ben Affleck was born on Aug. 15, 1972, in Berkeley, CA. He was raised in the liberal academic city of Cambridge, MA, where his mother Chris taught elementary school. His father Tim was active with the influential Theater Company of Boston and made a living as a bartender, mechanic, and janitor, among other jobs. The couple gave birth to another future actor Caleb, better known as Casey, in 1975 before divorcing in 1984. Both talented sons began their acting careers while they were young, with the elder brother debuting in a local independent film at the age of 11. Around the same time, he had already become best friends with his neighbor Matt Damon, who also loved Red Sox baseball and dreamed of becoming a movie star himself. Before he was even a teenager Affleck went on to appear in commercials for Burger King and in 1984, was cast in "The Voyage of Mimi" (PBS, 1984), an educational show filmed aboard a whaling ship in Mexico that gave Affleck his first taste of the exotic life of an actor on location. In 1986, he starred in the ABC Afterschool Special, "Wanted: The Perfect Guy" (1986), playing a son trying to find a suitable husband for his single mother (Madeline Kahn).

At Cambridge Rindge and Latin High School, Affleck became known as "that kid on TV," and, to his teachers, "that kid who isn't interested in doing schoolwork." Affleck was an admittedly unfocused student, though he was a voracious reader with nearly perfect SAT scores. Damon's good grades, on the other hand, got him into Harvard, but when Affleck graduated in 1990, he lasted barely one semester at the University of Vermont before heading to Hollywood. The move netted him a role as Patrick Duffy's son in "Danielle Steel's 'Daddy'" (NBC, 1991) and his big screen debut in "School Ties" (1992), in which he was one of the football-playing anti-Semitic gang. Still baby-faced enough to play high school age, he made several appearances as a strapping football-player in "Against the Grain" (NBC, 1993) and was cast as a Texas high school senior who terrorizes freshman students in Richard Linklater's classic, "Dazed and Confused" (1993). His early roles as a teen bully belied Affleck's quick-witted, bantering, buddy persona that would soon win over movie audiences of both genders.

Around this time, Damon showed Affleck an idea he had begun working on for a screenwriting class â¿¿ a story about a pair of best friends in the working class neighborhood of South Boston. Neither actor was thrilled with the roles they were landing, so they decided to write the type of movie that they wanted to act in. The script for "Good Will Hunting" was complete within a year, and when the actors gave copies to their agents, they were stunned to find a bidding war erupting in less than a week. Castle Rock initially bought the script, but there was no forward movement on production. During that time, Affleck began what would be a long-running association with filmmaker Kevin Smith, who tapped his wiseguy townie charm in "Mallrats" (1995). When Castle Rock eventually passed on "Good Will Hunting" a year later, Smith recommended it to Harvey Weinstein. Miramax promptly bought the script. But first Affleck re-teamed with Smith, who wrote him a leading role as a comic book artist in love with a lesbian in the charming film festival fave, "Chasing Amy" (1997).

"Good Will Hunting" finally premiered in December 1997 and Affleck was wildly entertaining as the tried-and-true best friend of Damon's unambitious janitor who is torn between worlds when he is discovered to be a mathematical genius. The film's coming-of-age theme, career highlight performance from Robin Williams, and the dynamic chemistry of Damon, Affleck and their ball-busting pals won over audiences and critics alike, with the film receiving 10 Oscar nominations including Best Picture and Best Original Screenplay, which the duo took home. Even before the awards ceremony, however, detractors were lined up to contest that these two virtual and handsome unknowns had actually written such an affecting work. Affleck did not take the accusations seriously, but his quip that he and Damon were going to end up like Milli Vanilli with their award repossessed did not help matters.

With an Oscar on the mantle, scripts flooding in, and actress Gwyneth Paltrow on his arm, Affleck was living the movie star life of his childhood dreams. Surprisingly, his follow-up to "Good Will Hunting" was the Michael Bay film "Armageddon" (1998), where he co-starred as a hotshot oil driller in a crew selected to save the world from an asteroid. The film was lensed prior to the release of "Good Will," and though it did well at theaters, it was an unexpected second act for an actor who had established himself with a film of considerably more emotional depth and artistic merit. Switching gears again, Affleck donned tights to play a wastrel actor in Elizabethan England in "Shakespeare in Love" (1998) alongside girlfriend Paltrow. He appeared as a bartender in the ensemble cast of "200 Cigarettes" (1999) before reuniting with Damon in Kevin Smith's "Dogma" (1999), a controversial satire of the Catholic Church that proved to be a PR headache for Smith, Miramax, and all involved â¿¿ though critics generally appreciated the subversive humor. Affleck returned to box office movie star land with the stylized romantic comedy "Forces of Nature" (1999), playing a stressed out groom-to-be attracted by the world of a free-spirited Sandra Bullock.

Affleck kicked off the new millennium with the disappointing thriller "Reindeer Games" (2000) and anchored the testosterone-fueled "Boiler Room" (2000), faring better in the latter role of a slick Wall Streeter coaching new recruits. In the overwrought "Bounce" (2000), Affleck's co-starring role as the hard-drinking ad exec whose life undergoes a complete change after a brush with death was unfortunately diminished by he and co-star Paltrow's off-screen pairing. She had reportedly encouraged him to accept the role to flex what she felt were his untapped acting muscles, but by the time the film opened the high profile couple were history. The newly single Affleck found a hobby to take up his leisure time: politics. As the 2000 presidential election drew near, he was a common sight at rallies, public speaking events, and talk shows, where he openly supported the Democratic ticket and encouraged young adult voters to get out there and make a difference. An investigation conducted by The Smoking Gun web site the following year actually found no evidence that Affleck voted that year or any time during the previous eight years. Despite this embarrassing gaffe, Affleck's interest in politics and his presence on news and political talk shows carried on unabated, and the actor repeatedly expressed interest in someday running for Congress himself.

Back on the big screen, Affleck reunited with director Bay in 2001 for the big-budget box office bloat, "Pearl Harbor," playing one leg of a romantic triangle involving his best friend (Josh Hartnett) and the nurse they both love (Kate Beckinsale). In Kevin Smith's "Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back" (2001), Affleck appeared as both Holden, the character he played in Smith's "Chasing Amy," and as a parody version of himself, the Hollywood actor. Later that year the Hollywood Actor version of Affleck checked himself into a 30-day program at Malibu's famed Promises rehab facility for alcohol abuse, echoing his father's own bout with alcoholism while Affleck was young. Tim Affleck had subsequently become sober and taken a job as a rehab counselor in Palm Springs, CA following his divorce. Admirably, Affleck realized his problem and took pains to clean up his act - despite the embarrassing headlines.

Affleck's return to the screen following his newfound sobriety resulted in one of his most compelling performances. In "Changing Lanes" (2002), he played an arrogant, high-powered attorney whose random traffic encounter with a struggling father (Samuel L. Jackson) sets in motion events that radically derail both their lives. With his confidence at a new high, Affleck next took on the weight of a struggling film franchise by essaying Tom Clancy hero Jack Ryan in "The Sum of All Fears" (2002), with the character retrograded back to a green CIA analyst who becomes embroiled in a nuclear calamity. The film was one of the weaker adaptations of Clancy's work, but audiences accepted Affleck in the role and delivered a strong box office. At that point, it was Affleck who was opening a movie, while Damon toiled away in slightly edgier fare that lacked a general appeal - like "The Legend of Bagger Vance" (2000) and "All the Pretty Horses" (2000). It was understood that Ben was the star; Matt was the actor.

Even as Affleck was offered an increasing succession of leading roles in major motion pictures, he had not lost interest in the behind-the-scenes world that first put him on the map. He and Damon teamed up as executive producers on the series "Push, Nevada" (ABC, 2002), a unique mystery game show that was "pulled" after only a few low-rated episodes. That year, they also launched the Project Greenlight screenwriting competition with Miramax and HBO as co-sponsors. A documentary series chronicling the search for the next great independent filmmaker was aired on HBO, and was so successful that a second season aired the following year. But for all the buzz brought on by he and Damon's latest partnership, his rehab stint, and his film roles that year, nothing generated as much media in 2002 as Affleck's blossoming relationship with pop culture phenomenon Jennifer Lopez. The two met in late 2001 while filming "Gigli" (2003) â¿¿ when Lopez was still a married woman, to dancer Chris Judd. After filming, they began dating â¿¿ but only officially after Lopez separated from Judd. It was then that Affleck became the victim of total media overexposure; some of it, no doubt, brought on by himself and his bling-happy girlfriend. But the press also pursued relentlessly, naming them collectively as "Bennifer." The glamorous Bentley-driving couple announced their engagement in November of 2002. After snagging one of the most desirable women in the world at that point, Affleck, as a likely result, was named 2002's "Sexiest Man Alive" by People magazine.

As Affleck's media presence increased on the cover of every tabloid in the world, his acting credibility took a nosedive. In 2002, he took a starring role in "Daredevil" (2003), an adaptation of a lesser-known Marvel Comics superhero. Affleck was generally considered miscast as the blind lawyer whose enhanced radar senses lead him to fight crime. The film did moderately well at the box office, but was clobbered by "Spiderman" (2003) and the spate of similar genre films popular at the time â¿¿ by which "Daredevil" suffered in comparison. The film did, however, pair Affleck with future real-life leading lady Jennifer Garner. But at the time, he was still traipsing around town in a Rolls Royce with Lopez. When the pair finally appeared onscreen in the much-delayed but anticipated release of "Gigli," it suffered lethal reconfigurations to accommodate the public's expectation of romance between Lopez and Affleck, although Lopez's character was written and initially shot as a confirmed lesbian. The mob action comedy was the victim of bad buzz for months before its release and proved to be one of the biggest box office losses and Razzie Award winners of all time. To say "Gigli" was a stinker was a great understatement.

The pressure of constant scrutiny and Affleck's gradual decline from Oscar winner to the butt of late night TV jokes came to a head with the announcement that he and Lopez's engagement was off. Publicly penitent over the creative failures of "Daredevil" and "Gigli" and the overexposure of all things "Bennifer," Affleck tried to rally at the end of 2003 with "Paycheck," a John Woo-directed sci-fi thriller based on a Phillip K. Dick premise, with Affleck playing a brilliant computer engineer whose short term memory is erased to protect government secrets. Competently made and a modest hit at the box office, "Paycheck" nevertheless did little to diffuse Affleck's tabloid headlines. In early 2004, the Affleck-Lopez romance was officially kaput, followed by the unfortunately timed release of the couple's second onscreen pairing, Kevin Smith's romantic comedy "Jersey Girl" (2004). The film's marketing team tried to downplay Lopez's small role in the middling film, which was not nearly the commercial, creative or critical disaster "Gigli" was. Affleck played a hard-driving, city-dwelling publicist who finds himself a widowed father suddenly trapped in the suburbs and unexpectedly getting a second chance at love. Despite an admirable effort from Affleck, the film suffered from guilt-by-Bennifer-association, spelling box office doom for Smith's passion project.

Getting his act together, Affleck the political pundit returned to the podium again during the 2004 election year â¿¿ this time channeling his energy into campaigning on behalf of Democratic presidential nominee, John Kerry. And this time as a registered voter himself. While Kerry lost the election, Affleck's own losing streak continued with the dismal holiday comedy "Surviving Christmas" (2004), which cast him in his first "wacky comedy" role as a successful but unhappy businessman who pays a family to provide him with a warm Christmas experience. Meanwhile, at long last, Damon swept past his best friend to mainstream leading man status after appearing as spy Jason Bourne in the highly successful and lucrative "Bourne Identity" (2002) and "Ocean's Eleven" (2001) franchises.

In between films, Affleck embarked on a lower-profile, slightly less controversial romance with "Daredevil" co-star Jennifer Garner. Despite questions of when the first spark occurred, it was apparent to all who knew Affleck that this Jennifer was a better match for the down-to-earth actor. Soon, Garner was appearing alongside her beau at Red Sox games. It was not long before the couple ultimately became pregnant and were married in June 2005. Their daughter, Violet Anne was born Dec. 1, 2005, with a second daughter, Seraphina Rose joining the family on Jan. 6, 2009. With his new domesticated life, Affleck seemed on his way to putting those embarrassing years behind him. His acting career received a much-needed boost with a strong performance in the celebrity biopic/crime noir, "Hollywoodland" (2006). In it, Affleck played original "Superman" actor George Reeves, whose own fall from grace ended in an apparent suicide surrounded by mysterious circumstances. Affleck took the De Niro approach, packing on a few pounds to give his character the necessary heft and world-weary appearance, and for the first time in years, his acting was recognized with a Volpi Cup for Best Actor at the Venice Film Festival and Golden Globe nomination for Best Supporting Actor.

Affleck followed up with a supporting role in the wannabe hip action-comedy "Smokin' Aces" (2007), but that role was quickly forgotten in the face of "Gone Baby Gone" (2007), Affleck's directorial debut for which he also adapted the screenplay from bestselling Boston writer Dennis Lehane's novel. In the film, brother Casey Affleck was cast as the detective lead in the thriller about the disappearance of a young girl. Critics gave the dark, moody film overwhelmingly positive reviews, many echoing the sentiment that apparently Affleck's greatest talent was behind the camera. Film critic Richard Roeper said of the pairing of the Affleck brothers, "It's a career highlight for both of them."

While promoting the film's fall 2007 release, Affleck was again eager to address the 2008 presidential elections, voicing support for Democratic candidate Barack Obama and critiquing the incumbent administration on Fox News, MSNBC, and "Real Time with Bill Maher" (HBO, 2003- ), among others. In fact, in various interviews, Affleck began expressing interest in one day running for Congress in his home state, and it was not hard to see that among Hollywood talents, Affleck was one of the few taken seriously as a knowledgeable, articulate interview subject by cable news outlets. He returned to movie screens in 2009 shortly after his candidate of choice, Barack Obama, took the oath of office, with a role in the ensemble romantic comedy "He's Just Not That Into You" (2009), in which he played a long-term boyfriend averse to marriage. He had the opportunity to step into the role of congressman, albeit one under investigation for the suspicious death of his mistress, in the thriller "State of Play" (2009), based on the British miniseries of the same name. Included in the film's acclaimed cast were Russell Crowe, Dame Helen Mirren and Jason Bateman, who would also team up with Affleck later in the year in Mike Judge's factory-set comedy, "Extract" (2009).

The year 2010 proved Affleck's skills behind the camera were no fluke, when he co-wrote, directed and starred in the crime thriller "The Town," shot again in his beloved Boston. Playing a tortured bank robber wanting out of a lifetime of crime after falling in love with one of his temporary hostages, Affleck enjoyed a career resurgence and respect that stuck this time. Co-stars Jon Hamm, Jeremy Renner and Chris Cooper sang his praises as a sensitive, thoughtful and collaborative director and reviews were equally positive. Meanwhile, as he began preparing his next film, Affleck and Garner welcomed their third child, Samuel, into the world in early 2012. Later that year saw the release of Affleckâ¿¿s third directorial effort, "Argo," a political thriller based on the so-called Canadian Caper â¿¿ a joint CIA-Canadian operation that freed six hostages during the 1979 Iran hostage crisis by posing as film production for a fake sci-fi movie. Affleck played real-life CIA officer Tony Mendez, who plans and leads the precarious operation. Once again, critics swooned over the directorâ¿¿s work, which made its debut at the Toronto International Film Festival before being released to theaters in October 2012 and taking the top spot at the box office. By year's end, Affleck, to no surprise, received a Golden Globe nomination for Best Director, but in the most shocking of events, did not receive an Oscar nomination after virtually everyone had considered him a lock. Much to his apparent shock, he did win the Globe and went on to win the Academy Award for Best Picture, sharing it with co-producers Grant Heslov and George Clooney.

After film-festival screenings in 2012, Affleck's next project, the enigmatic Terrence Malick drama "To the Wonder," arrived in theaters during early 2013 to a muted reception. While Affleck had a mostly quiet summer, things heated up in late August when it was announced that he would be taking up the cape and cowl of Batman for the untitled "Man of Steel" sequel scheduled for 2015. Opinions on his casting were wildly mixed, but some fans saw how Affleck's career made him suitable for the role. Later that year, he teamed up with Justin Timberlake for the underwhelming thriller "Runner Runner" and began filming the literary adaptation "Gone Girl" (2014) with Rosamund Pike and director David Fincher. The film was released to respectful reviews in October 2014.


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  Argo (2012)
  Town, The (2010)

CAST: (feature film)

 Live by Night (2017)
 Suicide Squad (2016)
 Accountant, The (2016)
 Gone Girl (2014)
 Runner, Runner (2013)
 Argo (2012)
 Town, The (2010)
 Company Men, The (2010)

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Appeared in PBS documentary series "The Voyage of the Mimi"
Made network TV debut on "Wanted: The Perfect Guy," an "ABC Afterschool Special"; played Madeline Kahn's son
TV miniseries debut, "Hands of a Stranger" (NBC)
Cast in regular role on the short-lived NBC series "Against the Grain"
Directed short film "I Murdered My Lesbian Wife, Hung Her on a Meathook and Now I Have a Three-Picture Deal at Disney"
Charmed critics and audiences as a comic book artist who falls for a bisexual woman in Kevin Smith's "Chasing Amy"
Formed Pearl Street Productions with Matt Damon
Played a bartender in the ensemble comedy-drama "200 Cigarettes"
Re-teamed with director Kevin Smith for "Dogma"; also re-teamed with Damon to play a pair of renegade angels
Joined ensemble cast of "The Boiler Room," a drama about Wall Street brokers
With Damon and backed by HBO and Miramax, sponsored Project Greenlight, a screenwriting competition that would result in a produced motion picture
Re-teamed with Gwyneth Paltrow for "Bounce"
With Damon, co-executive produced and acted in "The Third Wheel" (filmed in 1999), scripted by buddy Jay Lacopo
Made a brief appearance in Kevin Smith's "Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back"; reprised role of Holden from "Chasing Amy" as well as appeared as himself
Executive produced and appeared in the HBO series "Project Greenlight" about the script writing contest he co-sponsored
Assumed the role of Jack Ryan (previously played by Alec Baldwin and Harrison Ford) in "The Sum of All Fears"
Served as an executive producer on "Stolen Summer"; winner of the Project Greenlight competition
Co-created (with Sean Bailey) and executive produced (with Matt Damon) short-lived ABC drama "Push, Nevada"
Cast as Matt Murdock/Daredevil in the blockbuster "Daredevil," based on the Marvel comic book character
Co-starred with Jennifer Lopez in box office flop "Gigli"
Played the lead in the John Woo thriller "Paycheck"
Re-teamed with director Kevin Smith for the romantic comedy "Jersey Girl"
Starred as a lonely guy who rents himself a family for the holidays in the comedy "Surviving Christmas"
Portrayed the 1950s "Superman" TV star George Reeves in "Hollywoodland"; received a Golden Globe nomination for Best Actor in a Supporting Role
Executive produced horror film "Feast," a result of the third season of the Project Greenlight contest
Played a congressman opposite Russell Crowe in the thriller "State of Play"
Played Jason Bateman's best friend in Mike Judge's "Extract"
Played a white-collar corporate employee who loses his job in John Wells' directing debut "The Company Men"
Featured in Terrence Malick's "To the Wonder"
Starred opposite Justin Timberlake in the thriller "Runner Runner."


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Occidental College: Eagle Rock , California -
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In early August 2001, Affleck voluntarily entered the Promises rehabilitation facility in Malibu for treatment of alcohol abuse.

"My fantasy is that someday I'm independently wealthy enough that I'm not beholden to anybody, so I can run for Congress on the grounds that everyday people, be they singers or poets or bankers or lawyers or teachers, should be in government. The government shouldn't be controlled by a professional class of politicians."---Affleck quoted in GQ, May 2001.

Depsite making appearances during the 2000 US Presidential campaign and the US Senate campaign of Hilary Rodham Clinton, Affleck did not vote in the election as reported by the Internet site The Smoking Gun. (

"I'd come out of a really crazy time in my life where everything just seemed very out of control. I mean, this isn't a euphemism for a three-week stint at Hazelden or something. It's that my life changed so much so quickly that I lost any sense of who exactly I was. You struggle and you've got this shitheap car and this rathole apartment, and then you think, 'If I could just fix this, I'd be okay.' Then you can afford a new car and a nicer place, and what you're left with is the realization that that actually WASN'T your problem. I made some poor choices in terms of the direction I took my life in."---Affleck on why the script for "Bounce" appealed to him as quoted in Talk, October 2000.

"All of a sudden, you're confronted with a roomful of people who've seen your movies. For me there isn't a roomful of people who've seen my movies in the world. The extent of my fame is limited to record-store clerks with nose rings and tattoos."---Affleck commenting on having a film play at the Sundance Film Festival to GQ February 1998.

"Several things become apparent while spending a night drinking and gambling with Ben Affleck. The first is that he's more shrewd businessman than self-absorbed actor. He's a strategist who believes he's figured out a way to beat impossible odds. Whether he's playing blackjack, carving out a Hollywood career, or trying to ensure that a magazine cover story furthers his agenda, Affleck conveys a distinctly American optimism, a conviction that he will succeed by sheer force of his persistence, desire to win, and smarts. For an actor who is not a member of the Church of Scientology, he's strangely free of self-doubt."---From "Going All the Way" by Christine Spines in Premiere, August 1998.

"'Success exacerbates your personality traits.' In his case, those would be: 'Generosity, the capacity for consumption and spending money, the desire to keep busy and work. The worst one, probably, is the difficulty I have in letting other people talk."---Affleck quoted in Daily News, June 30, 1998.

"It's such a weird thing that the very same time that our friendship became so public, we never spent any time together because we were so busy working on different pictures, except for 'Dogma'. Before we were successful, we lived together and hung out together with a bunch of other guys from Cambridge [MA]. Now that we're busy, I don't see him enough."---Affleck on his relationship with Matt Damon Boston Globe, June 28, 1998.

"Ben's the real thing, He's got that square jaw, that real Americana look, without being pretty. Women want to be with him and men want to be like him, which is what movie stars are made of."---producer Jerry Bruckheimer to Details, July 1998.

"As an actor, you want to do more than the job. You want to be good because you care about the work and you want to get other jobs."---Ben Affleck to Chicago Tribune, December 19, 1997.

"We got into this conversation on the set of 'Armageddon'. I asked everyone 'How much would you charge to give some guy a blow job? What's your price?' Their initial reaction is 'Oh no, no way!' Then after a while, it's like, 'Do I have to swallow?'

'We're talking a briefcase full of cash. So where do you draw your line? Would you do it for $12 million? Fuck, yes! You're kidding, I'd do it for less. And yet $12 million is probably what Keanu [Reeves] passed up to do 'Speed 2'. So people scoff at the roles actors take. But who am I to judge? I've just admitted I'll suck dick for cash in front of a roomful of people."---Affleck quoted in GQ, February 1998.

"What's going to mean the most to me is being a father, being a husband, being a person of whom I can really be proud."---Affleck on marriage and family People June 24, 2002

"We're on the same page because we share a lot of the same life experiences. It's nice to have someone who understands where you're coming from."---Affleck on Matt Damon to Biography July 2002

"Ben's really loyal and really, really smart and really funny. He's got more going for him than just about anyone I've ever met."---Matt Damon People December 2, 2002

"He's totally normal. He's grounded. There's no ego-tripping allowed."---Miramax chief Harvey Weinstein People June 28, 2004

"I'm tired of doing the types of movies I'm best known for... I don't want to feel like a monkey with an organ grinder out there on Access Hollywood."---Affleck quoted in Details, November, 2004.

Companions close complete companion listing

Cheyenne Rothman. Dated on and off since high school; broke up in the fall of 1997.
Gwyneth Paltrow. Actor. Began dating in December 1997; co-starred together in "Shakespeare in Love"; reportedly separated in December 1998; later worked together in "Bounce" (2000), fueling speculation they had reconciled.
Shoshonna Lonstein. Fashion designer. Reportedly dated in fall 2000.
Jennifer Lopez. Actress, singer. Reportedly dating in July 2002; engaged as of November 2002; wedding date rumored to be September 14, 2003; wedding rumored to be postponed until a later date; rumored that Affleck ended relationship with Lopez in September 2003; reportedly reconciled in September 2003; reps for the couple confirmed that the engagement ended January 2004.
Jennifer Garner. Actor. Reportedly dating as of July 2004.
Enza Sambataro. TV account executive. Met at a fund-raiser in a Boston bowling alley; rumored to be dating as of June 2004.

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Timothy Affleck. Drug rehabilitation counselor, former bartender, former actor, auto mechanic, janitor. Divorced from Affleck's mother c. 1984; underwent treatment for alcohol addiction.
Chris Affleck. Teacher. Divorced from Affleck's father c. 1984.
Casey Affleck. Actor. Born on August 12, 1975; appeared as murdering teen in "To Die For".


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Was married to Jennifer Garner in 2005 and they have a daughter named Violet.

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